Adult Star Alexa Aimes and Myths About Female Ejaculation

“Just because we work in the sex industry, doesn’t mean that that’s all that we’re capable of.” — Alexa Aimes

Last week on Girl Boner Radio, I had the pleasure of interviewing Alexa Aimes, an adult star who considers herself “the strangest girl you’ll ever meet.” If you define strange as unique and groundbreaking, I’d say heck yes! The stunning starlet is a brilliant intellectual and hilarious to boot. (Seriously, it was all I could do to keep my loudest hyena laugh from hurting listeners’ ears.) She’s also passionate about using her voice and celebrity to make a positive difference in the adult industry.

Alexa Aimes 1We discussed her unusual background, shifting gears from a nursing career to starring in porn, her comedy aspirations, the charities she supports and myths she strives to debunk regarding female adult entertainers. Drawing on her medical background, she explained the physiology of female ejaculation and how it varies in porn versus our beds. Here are some of the tidbits she shared.

“You watch porn and you see this huge gush of squirt—that’s a fantasy. It looks hot.” — Alexa Aimes

3 Myths About Female Ejaculation

1. It’s pee. Nope! At least not in real life. Alexa explained that while female ejaculate may contain traces of urine, as men’s can, it’s an entirely different fluid, rich in prostatic acid phosphatase, the same chemical semen contains. What you see in porn may very well consist primarily of pee, however. Listen to our interview using the link below to hear Alexa’s awesome explanation.

2. It’s the same thing as “squirting” or “gushing.” I love that this has been studied! Research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2011 found that squirting or gushing, commonly seen in porn, and female ejaculation are entirely different phenomena. While female ejaculation causes the release of whitish fluid from the Skene’s gland, gushing involves the expulsion of diluted fluid from the bladder.

3. It’s caused by G-spot stimulation. Not exactly. Stimulating the G-spot (actually either of our TWO G-spots, said Alexa) may cause ejaculate to flow because it’s often near the Skene’s gland, it’s the actual gland that needs stimulating. Since G-spots aren’t all in the exact same place, finding yours and your Skene’s gland may take some exploration. (Talk about fun homework. ;))

To listen to our full interview, visit this link on iTunes: Can All Women Squirt? An Interview with Adult Star Alexa Aimes.

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For a signed 8×10 of Alexa, email her proof of a charitable donation you’ve made to You can also connect with Alexa on Twitter: @AlexaAimes.

What did you think of our chat? Any thoughts or questions about female ejaculation? I love hearing from you! ♥ 

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  1. laurie27wsmith

     /  June 9, 2014

    My thoughts on female ejaculation? I love it. To me it shows your partner is comfortable with you and highly aroused. What more could you ask for?

  2. You know I’m going to have to go back and listen to this awesome sounding interview the moment I have another break in my schedule. 🙂

  3. You really are a superstar, August.
    Nice work!

  4. Raani York

     /  June 15, 2014

    Well done August. There is something I didn’t know yet… a woman has two G-Spots? It took me years to be shown the first one – but where in all the world is the other?

  5. I have dated one person who did squirt (quite a bit, actually). I have never decided if she was glad or not that she did.

  6. Heezy

     /  July 19, 2014

    This is good stuff man,i also didnt know that a woman has 2 G-spots…damn somebody gotta learn this awsome stuff

  7. Heezy

     /  July 19, 2014


  8. Two years ago I had vaginal vault reconstruction surgery. I’m overall very happy with my results, but one thing I did lose as a result of the surgery was my ability to ejaculate. I do miss that warm flood of whatever it was, and so does my husband. I’ve had a couple of very light episodes, but for the most part it’s gone now. It’s definitely real, and wonderful when it happens.


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